Tuesday, January 27

the sick girl in the corner

Sometimes, on random days, I turn around, looking... and realize that I am all alone. Not in the literal sense of the word, there are humans all around me... alone figuratively. Friends only call when they want or need something from you, family members email you only so often to send meaningless "love messages"... you know, the "Love is the answer to... etc."

I've been sick this whole weekend and no one called to ask me if I was okay... hell, no one knew.
Sometimes, no one actually cares...


  1. What kind of friends do you have sweety?!?!? And I mean this with all the best intentions....

    :( You need to find ppl that appreciate you for who you are and will call you just because...

    Cheesy but true. <3

  2. I hope you are feeling better, and if not, then I hope you feel better soon...I've been enjoying your blog...I enjoy honesty...Thanks for stopping by.

  3. P: My friends... to be quite honest, they're the crappy kind. I'm just gonna say that... I'll post about it later.
    I know by the way.. but real friends, the ones that actually accept people for who they are: hard to find

    Beeze: Thank you... I feel somewhat better. Thank YOU for stopping by. Means something. :)

  4. I agree with P, I don't want to be harsh or anything but your friends don't seem to be doing their work. The status "friend" has to be earned.. at least in my books.
    I hope you're feeling better :)

  5. Ok just throwin this out there...

    If no one knew you were sick...how would they have known to call you/visit to see if you were okay?

    It's like my friend said to me the other day when he was glum: "I dont have any birthday plans, no one has said anything or initiated anything/any ideas". Sometimes...you just gotta do you it yourself! Take that initiative...I'm not saying advertise to everyone that you are sick, but maybe start by initiating conversation with someone you haven't talked to in awhile.

    I'm not saying friends are not important to have...I'm just saying that sometimes people forget and get wrapped up in their own lives. Humans are selfish :) (and thats ok...sometimes we just need reminders....friendly ones!)

    If you ever need a friend, pop by and say hello :)

  6. I know what you mean. They don't care, not really.


  7. Jo: I'm feeling okay right now, thanks. I'll post about my friends and about my high school days soon. You might understand better.

    Tiffany: The thing is, I don't feel comfortable enough to call any of my friends and tell them I'm not feeling well.
    Thank you for the shout out by the way :)

    Michael: They don't... and that sucks.

  8. You will know who your true friends are in the end.

    Keep blogging sweety~

  9. hi jane.

    real friends are hard to find. having one is a blessing. having two is nearly impossible.


  10. you've been quiet...I hope you are alright.